Power is a double edged sword that the ancients discussed and
people of all times covet…but what is it really and why is it so
seductive? What would a picture of this influential archetype…look
like? Well I say that understanding power itself can help us get clear
about where we are and who we are in life. Power is the ability to
make changes.
What would we be
like if we had all our power taken from us?
Do people who end up getting addicted have a deep fear of losing
their power, and so they kind of “play” with that elusive power and
then find it lodged in their substance of choice, so even if they lose
it they can “find” it in their substance…which now has total power
over them?
How much better a world where we were encouraged to discover
why we play with the concepts we play with, because if we could do
that how much more genuine control
we would have in life!
By understanding power we would learn genuine respect for those
powers we do have and those we
lack as well.
By understanding power we would find it easier to manage ourselves
because we would be working on values rather than the perceived
need to escape from our own
supposed powerlessness.
Think about it. Find your own inner light and you will no longer
need to light up!
And if you would like some skilled compassionate phone coaching
for yourself, please contact me at Averayugen@mail.com
1.
Albert Sooquaimeng says:
Great Task,
Pls. Include two
points.
1.
Ask any smoker
to role 10/- or 50/- even 100/- dollar note; treat them like cigerates….and
smoke!
They will
quit???
2.
Get the smoker
child; Ask the parents :”Daddy, do you love me??? If so, stop burning away hard
earn $$$ suppose to be my school or tuition fees for my University Education…
“Show me your love, OK???”
Love from Albert
sooquaimeng.
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Avera Yugensays:
You know Albert
it all makes sense to me. Except I already quit. For the ones who have not as
yet…..they are still gripped in this unreasonable behavior which defies all
logic.
Of course the
kids will be mystified and until mom or dad quits they will be hurt too. The
idea of Beautiful Quitters is to show that people who are addicted are really
missing something, but when they begin to understand themselves and what they
might still be missing the healing is already begun.
The next step is
to get some vibrant health we have been missing out on and the rest is a benign
circle. Quitters really do improve their whole lives and get their needs met
better too ;=)
Thanks for the feedback and input,
points well taken!
Warmly,
Avera
1.
bob Clatosays:
Makes alot of
sense.
It is all a
matter of a choice too.’
Great work on this site.
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Avera Yugensays:
Dear Bob,
Choice is absolutely the hidden
ingredient. Nothing really good happens to us without our full “participation”
if you will. Suffering may be “with us” but we can ALWAYS “be with” the power
of choice and choose wisely among a chaotic universe of alternatives. It is the
meaning of maturing into wise adulthood, and it is also my own personal goal in
life!
Thank you for the kind words and please
stay around….things are growing here!
Warmly,
Avera
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Stevesays:
What a wonderful
site. Having your own personal experience with quitting combined with the help
and resources available to others makes this a very useful tool for anyone
wishing to take that step to freedom. Thank you for creating this site and I’m
sure with time it will have a great number of happy followers who are regaining
control of their lives and not letting a substance control them.
All the best.
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Avera Yugensays:
Thank you so
much for that Steve!!
You are obviously very sincere and I
feel the support ;=)
I know this will not be a quick journey
but while I wait for some clients I will continue building up this site and
hopefully instilling more confidence that this coaching is a great choice for
quitters who want to be permanent non-smokers.
Thanks again and take care always,
Avera
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Sherriesays:
Excellent site,
I commend you on this, especially with you helping others. Sherrie
1.
Avera Yugensays:
Hi Sherrie,
Thank you for the feedback and approval!
I take great pains to make a useful and engaging site and the great comments
make it all worthwhile. Best to you always and thanks again…
Warmly,
Avera
1.
Marjoriesays:
Bewst video on
addiction I have seen, very sobering, thank you.
1.
Avera Yugensays:
Thank you
Marjorie,
Doing this work is sobering for me too!
I appreciate your feedback.
Avera
1.
Marjoriesays:
I really love
this Ted talk, he has all that right for sure.
1.
Avera Yugensays:
I loved it too…thanks for the thanks!
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