Here’s a thought snippet I just had when awakening this morning: When guys get hurt, they
often stifle it, deny it and then hurt someone else. When women get hurt they too often
blame themselves and then get hurt some more. Please forgive me for seeming to
stereotype complicated human reality! It is just so hard in the middle of a confusing
painful modern life we all must master, to find a clear vision to greater self-empowerment.
But I am driven to keep getting better at doing just that.
My aim here at Beautiful Quitters is to do my part to liberate everyone to work on restoring
our bodies, minds, spirits and then spread the healing around widely. We must discover
valid reasons for our pain and then fight like there’s no tomorrow to feel beautiful in spite
of our pain and then move on from there.
We can really make a difference in forging a better world when we see how this
fatalistically-wounded humanity is really such a scam. Freud wanted to cure neurosis into a
“merely” normally-hurting mankind instead of an abnormally-suffering mankind. He didn’t
go far enough though. He forgot to talk about how the quality of being “neurotic” can
become the new quotidian “normal” to begin with.
I say we will always have enough sorrows to fill the world, this morning, tomorrow and
always…but we also have to strive to reduce any self-imposed suffering in order to begin
liberating ourselves to make a better world for others too. And there aren’t enough shrinks
to begin to fill the bill so lets look for our saviors in our friends across the room or across
the great divides. We don’t have to suffer from this pervasive social isolation and
fragmentation we all to some extent are feeling.
Interesting that we have endless ways of hurting one another, but only two “parties” to
choose from on election day
and, if you ask me it’s mostly less than that. Why is one of the supposedly most powerful
mechanisms for remediation of our social ills….such a parody of what is really
needed, which is a frank addressing of each and every manifestation of our ghastly still-
gowingsocial/political/economic divisiveness? We need a frank hard addressing of the
roots of such myriad examples of such madness!
This insanity can stop if we can learn to see the divisiveness itself as the “enemy” we must
all fight. It’s not even a paradigm of “elitist” against “populist” as Constitutional lawyer
Danny Sheehan asserts in his modern politics course.
http://www.romeroinstitute.org/docs/Cowl126Syllabus.pdf
Instead I say it is presently kind of a cosmic battle between people who resort to more
divisiveness to “solve” things (ie: to solve violence, we supposedly need more guns for
tough guys versus the gunless wimps who supposedly don’t wanna solve violence and
maybe SHOULD be victimized!??!!) AND people who know the false divisions and all
dichotomies
ultimately…are what will doom us unless…unless….
And so I say what is needed is more unity, but unity based on what we all have in common,
including our need to be benignly unique from anyone else. And it’s really much more
than even that… our belief in freedom and responsibility and the primacy of the collective
AND the individual together. It verges on a spiritual upwards “unicotomy”. And I don’t
mean a false “unity” and the disturbing kind of concession-ism that (say) is always touted
toward the end
of our American presidential elections.
Rather we need the kind of wider human unity that represents a verifiable leap in human
development. We are really all the same, hard as it is to feel this at times. We go crazy
(outwardly or inwardly) when we get hurt enough. And MOST of us don’t know what to do
at that point, and then what happens is we feel less able to stay authentic and original and
constrained to sell out to prevailing paradigms of belief and thinking. We don’t WANT to
“identify with the aggressor” but it happens as we give up our own ability to steer a sane
and happy course through our own
lives.
This is so dangerous for potentiality successful quitters of any self-destructive habit. Please
take this all seriously for I know what I am talking about. There seem to be infinite ways
for us to cut ourselves off from reality and one another, but the cure is simple. There’s
already way too much divisiveness in the world, and so far it hasn’t “worked” at any grand
level.
Some may disagree, but I say it’s the general motive to higher self/other consciousness to
which MOST religions inspire…that may have been responsible for most psychic
improvement in mankind. We only must remember that the social/economic/political
“disease” that besets us all… is not NATURAL. I say we were born here on this one planet
to make a happy conscious caring life
a desideratum.
This animal and plant based planet didn’t need us but at the same time it couldn’t pave the
way to greater communication and unity with other galaxies either. We might have to pave
such a relationship and there’s no reason we shouldn’t want to. After all if unity is the goal,
where’s the limit, and why would anyone believe in a limit? We all deserve more beautiful
awakenings every morning.
after dreams of unity and a more humane tomorrow!
Averayugen@mail.com
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